Showing posts with label Finders Keepers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Finders Keepers. Show all posts

Monday, April 25, 2016

Hot Potato Topic April #4

Hello Everybody!
Whew...what in the world happened to April!?! Did someone accidentally hit the fast-forward button? Some get their foot off the gas pedal and slow things down a bit, please!! I am just not quite ready for summer...yesh!
Today Autism in on the table. I always believed it was all those crazy pregnant women that wouldn't give up their coffee that caused autism. I never believed that faker that said it was vaccinations, boy was that a fiasco! Any way here some more information to keep you in the know.
Until next time my knowledge gourmets,
The Chef

To Vaccinate or Not: Calming Worried Parents

Arthur L. Caplan, PhD; Paul A. Offit, MD

Close Up With Paul Offit


Arthur L. Caplan, PhD: Welcome to Close-Up With Art Caplan. I am very excited today to have as my guest Dr. Paul Offit, Head of Infectious Diseases at the Children's Hospital of Philadelphia. Thank you so much for coming.
Paul A. Offit, MD: Thank you, Art.
Dr. Caplan: It's fair to say that, in my view, Paul is the leading advocate and has done more for promoting vaccination than anybody else I know in the world. He has been a staunch advocate of helping kids receive necessary vaccines and has been a pioneer himself in vaccine research.

Calming a Parent's Vaccine Fears

Dr. Caplan: In your experience, what can be done to calm parents who are worried and hear such things as, "My child got sick after a vaccination"? Putting aside the lack of merit behind some of those fears, how do you calm a parent down?
 
Dr. Offit: A fear was raised originally in the late 1990s and early 2000s that vaccines caused autism. Fair enough. From the parent standpoint, my child was fine, he or she got a vaccine, and now my child is showing signs and symptoms consistent with autism. Could vaccines have done it?
The good news is that this is an answerable question. It has been answered in a scientific venue. Tens of millions of dollars have been spent by public health and academic professionals to try and answer this question: If you receive a vaccine, are you at greater risk for autism than if you don't receive a vaccine? Now we can comfortably say to parents that those 2 things are not causally associated. Vaccines don't cause autism.
 
Dr. Caplan: So we have a mountain of evidence?
 
Dr. Offit: Yes. The problem isn't that parents have the questions. It's fair that they have the questions. Nor is the problem that people haven't responded with millions of dollars to answer the question. They have answered the question. So, what now? Why, with all that information on hand, can't we convince people?
I don't think it's a lot of people, but some people simply have the fear, and it's hard to make the fear go away. In part, it is because we haven't identified a clear cause or causes for autism. We don't have a definitive cure for autism, so that keeps the fear running.
Consider diabetes in the 1800s, when people didn't know what caused it. There were many thoughts about what caused it, and many thoughts about what could cure it. When Banting and Best discovered insulin and we knew the cause of diabetes, and how to cure it, all of the myths disappeared. For something like autism, that may be what it's going to take.
 
Dr. Caplan: Do you think that it would help to say to a parent that there are suggestions that older parents are more likely to have a child with autism, or that environmental toxins might be associated with autism? I have seen these things explored as causes of autism. Would it calm their fears to say that there may be other factors that we are chasing besides vaccines as causes of autism?
 
Dr. Offit: You can certainly say that, with respect to environmental factors, vaccines are clearly the best studied, and many factors have been looked at in autism research that make sense and are confluent. Clearly, there is a genetic predisposition for autism. If you look at the proteins that those genes make -- the so-called developmental proteins -- they are often expressed in the first or early second trimester. Environmental factors, such as valproic acid, thalidomide, or rubella virus, increase the risk for autism because they affect the child in utero.
Eric Courchesne and colleagues[1] at the University of California, San Diego, showed that there are folding abnormalities in the brain. You can actually see the foldings in utero by looking at the child's brain, so it's all consistent.
When you have autism, you are born with autism. There is no changing that, and to some people, that is helpful to know.

Responding to "That's Too Many Vaccines"

Dr. Caplan: What about parents who are worried about their child receiving too many vaccines at once? How do we handle that concern?
 
Dr. Offit: I don't care how sophisticated you are about virology or microbiology or immunology -- when you watch your child lie down on that white paper and receive as many as 5 injections at once, it looks like it's too much.
When you are in the womb, you are in a sterile environment. When you enter the birth canal and the world, you are not, and very quickly there are trillions of bacteria on the surface of your body. I'm not trying to sound like Carl Sagan, but you have about 100,000 trillion (1014) bacteria on the surface of your body. You actually have more bacteria on the surface of your body than the number of cells in your body.
We have a way of carrying bacteria from one place to the next, and to which you make an immune response. Adults typically make as much as 5 g of secretory immunoglobulin A and immunoglobulin G daily to make sure that those bacteria stay at the mucosal surface.
One single bacterium out of the trillions of bacteria on your mucosal surfaces has between 2000 and 6000 immunologic components. If you add up all of the immunologic components in vaccines that are given in the first few years of life, it comes to about 160. It's literally a drop in the ocean of what you encounter and manage everyday, but you don't see that.
 
Dr. Caplan: When the parent comes in and says, "I'm worried about too many vaccines," and then goes home and lets the child crawl on the floor or lets the dog lick the child, is that worth pointing out to them? They are not exposed only to what is there naturally, but they are exposed to lots of agents in the ordinary course of wandering around the house.
 
Dr. Offit: And that is good, because it educates the immune system away from this Th2 response toward the so-called Th1 response. It makes you less likely to be allergic as you get older. That actually helps, but if people really want to scare themselves, they should take a cotton swab and swab the inside of the child's nose, put it on a wet-mount microscope slide, and look at it. If it's teeming with bacteria to which your child makes an immune response, that's a greater challenge than what you ever receive in a vaccine.
 
Dr. Caplan: So those metaphors could help.
 
Dr. Offit: I think so, yes.

A Lose/Lose Situation for Clinicians

Dr. Caplan: Here is another issue. Many doctors and nurses have had people come in and say, "I don't want to vaccinate." What can we do with them? Should we say, "Stop coming here," or should we try to work with them? Should we say, "We will stretch out the vaccine schedule"? What's your view about that?
 
Dr. Offit: I feel sorry for the private practicing clinician, my wife being one of them. It's a lose/lose situation. On the one hand, the doctor can say, "I'm going to do the best I can to give this child whatever vaccines I can," knowing that you are sending the child away less than fully vaccinated, and knowing that this is going to be a progressively more dangerous world where there is a greater incidence of measles, whooping cough, and bacterial meningitis.
 
Dr. Caplan: We have had outbreaks of all those diseases in the past year.
 
Dr. Offit: Now, you know you are practicing substandard care. You know you are putting the child at risk, and so it's hard for doctors. But on the other hand, they can say, "If I don't at least try and play it the parent's way, where does the person go then? Do they just go to a chiropractor who is perfectly willing to not vaccinate their children, or to another doctor who is willing to give them no vaccines?"
I have seen my wife progress through this, and she has gone 180° toward the opposite view. She is far more passionate. She says, "Let me love your child. Don't put me in a position where I have to practice substandard care. Don't put me in a position where I'm sending your child out into this world that is becoming progressively more dangerous, where they can get pneumococcal disease or varicella and suffer that. Don't put me in that position. It's like coming to me and saying, 'I love my child, but I don't trust car seats.'"
 
Dr. Caplan: I like that "let me love your child" angle. It makes an alliance with the parents. What about when a child who hasn't been vaccinated comes to the clinic? Do you say, "Don't mix with the other patients in the waiting room"?

Do Parents Have a Responsibility to Others?

Dr. Offit: That's a good question: Do you have a responsibility to the waiting room?
In the measles outbreak in San Diego that occurred a few years ago, that is exactly what happened. The mother didn't vaccinate her children, and she took her children to Switzerland. The 7-year-old got measles, came back, and was sitting in the waiting room. The mother didn't know what it was. She had never seen measles before.
The child had fever and a rash, and was exposing everybody else in the waiting room. Three of the children in the waiting room were less than 1 year of age and hadn't yet been vaccinated. All were severely infected with measles, were admitted to the hospital, and one almost died. The mother of the child who almost died said, "She made a decision for me." Did she have a right to make that decision?
 
Dr. Caplan: Ethically, it may be important to let people know you vaccinate not only to protect your own child, but also to protect your neighbor, and I don't think people understand that clearly. Sometimes it seems that it is all self-interest.
 
Dr. Offit: Do we have a responsibility to our neighbor? Is it our inalienable right to catch and transmit a potentially fatal infection? I would like to think that the answer is no.
 
Dr. Caplan: Pushing that a little further, there have been movements in several states -- Rhode Island, for example -- mandating flu vaccines for pre-kindergarten and daycare, saying that children can't go to these places unless they are vaccinated. I think it includes the teachers now as well. Is this a good idea? Should we push harder for that kind of requirement?
 
Dr. Offit: You are seeing what has happened. Before the 1970s, there were medical exemptions to vaccination, but no philosophical or religious exemptions. Those were established in the 1970s and 1980s, so now 41 states have religious exemptions, and 20 states have philosophical exemptions to vaccines.
 
Dr. Caplan: "Philosophical" just means "I don't like it."
 
Dr. Offit: I'm not sure. It never made much sense to me.
 
Dr. Caplan: As a philosopher, it seems to me it is a deep philosophical objection.
 
Dr. Offit: Philo means love, and sophia means wisdom. Where is the wisdom that says not getting a vaccine is better than getting one?
We are seeing the consequences of those exemptions. When we see such outbreaks as measles or whooping cough, invariably they are centered on groups of people who have chosen to not vaccinate their children. Not only do they serve as a reservoir for the children to become infected, but they infect members of the surrounding community, so now we are starting to see pushback. There was an article in JAMA Pediatrics[2] on this topic, and we are seeing legislation not for expanding those exemptions, but for contracting them.
 
Dr. Caplan: It seems to me that it still can be respectful of somebody's right to choose if you say you have to watch a video program about vaccines or certify that your doctor discussed the risks and benefits with you. I don't think those requirements are too intrusive into somebody's liberty.
 
Dr. Offit: My problem is this: Is it your right to choose to put your child at risk and those who are going to come in contact with your child? On the one hand, we are trained as physicians to be open to all attitudes and beliefs. On the other hand, we watch children come into our hospitals. Every year, at least 1 will die of an infectious disease, and when you watch that happen -- when you watch a child get flu, for example, and come into the hospital initially on face-mask oxygen, and go onto a ventilator, and then an oscillator, and then a heart/lung machine, and then die -- you see those parents slowly watch their child fall off a cliff. When another parent comes to you a week later and says, "I don't want to give my child a flu vaccine," it's very hard to be passionate and say, "It's your right to choose." I just don't feel that way.

Expand Vaccines for Pregnant Women

Dr. Caplan: We have spent a lot of time trying to figure out how to manage resistance, fears, and doubts. Where are we going? What is coming down the line? Are we going to continue to give vaccines through needles? Are we going to have the same array of vaccines, or are new ones imminent? What does the future hold with respect to vaccination?
 
Dr. Offit: I predict that the next great platform will be the pregnancy platform. You are already seeing it to some extent. We now give the whooping cough vaccine in the third trimester of pregnancy to try and prevent the deaths of 20-30 children every year from whooping cough, all of whom are less than 2 months of age. That is the only way to prevent that.
 
Dr. Caplan: And they die because they don't have any immunity to it?
 
Dr. Offit: That's right. They are too young to have developed an active immune response, and too young to be vaccinated. The first vaccine is given at 2 months of age, so that is why we give pregnant women a pertussis vaccine. We give the flu vaccine primarily to protect the mother who is pregnant and who has a 7-fold increased risk of developing pneumonia and dying of it than if she was not pregnant. We could have a meningococcal vaccine in pregnancy to avoid the need for the meningococcal vaccine that is given in the first year of life. I would like to think that down the line, we will have a respiratory syncytial virus vaccine that is given during pregnancy.
 
Dr. Caplan: Those are disorders that people often mistake for the flu.
 
Dr. Offit: Another disease is group B streptococcus. All of those would be reasonable vaccines to give to pregnant women, and they would benefit the newborns.
 
Dr. Caplan: There is more to be said here, but hopefully we have provided some useful information, solid tips, and maybe even some management strategies to those in the field who are trying to engage vaccination.
Thank you for all of the work you have done to promote vaccination and grapple with these questions in public. You have been a great example to physicians who say to me often, how do I engage? What do I do? You write, you speak, you go toe-to-toe with critics on national television or at a local high school assembly. You have shown a clear-cut path as to how that should be done.

Monday, March 28, 2016

Hot Potato Topic March #4

Hello Beautiful People!
So what are you currently reading? What is weighing down your night stand? What is keeping you from sleeping or making you rush through your day to get to your favorite spot in your home? From page turning pie burning, wee hour epics to what-was-I-thinking when I selected this title we all have something keeping our interest. Sometimes a Book Club is a great way to find a great read and meet new people. Don't knock it till you try it!
The Chef

You and your friends love to read and have thought of starting a book club. Well, that's a great idea! But, although it's a fantastic idea, it still requires a bit of planning. No worries, though. Just follow the steps outlined below and have a blast exploring new novels and genres!

Steps

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    Figure out what your book club will read, for both your first novel and in general. Will you be a general adult book club reading anything? A teen mystery book club? Deciding on a theme (or no theme, in the case of the first example) will help you keep you group motivated and supplied with reading ideas.
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    Find a core group of people with a passion for reading. They could be friends, family, or acquaintances you know through various activities, but they should all love to read. Also, make sure that this core group of members can commit to meetings on a regular basis. You don't want your entire group flaking out on you!
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    Decide where to meet. When you first begin, especially if the members are friends or you plan to serve alcohol, meeting your own home is a great idea. Later, different members could "host" different meetings. If there are members that you are not quite as familiar with, or don't want to meet at your house, ask your local library about using some of their space for a book club.
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    Set meeting time length. An hour is a good start. Eventually, two hours or an hour and a half may work better if you add more members to your group. Don't exceed two hours, because when meetings get too long people get bored. When people get bored, they quit coming to meetings. Your club could end before it even begins if it gets a reputation of being boring.
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    Poll members of your club. Ask what books they have been reading and what times and dates work best for them to meet.
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    Announce your first meeting. Set the date at least two weeks in advance, to allow for people to have time to read the book. Three weeks is even better. Send out e-mails a week before the meeting to give people a written reminder.
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    Start thinking of a cabinet. For instance, vote for president, vice president, secretary, and get a few people for a club newsletter. This step is optional for smaller groups, but is very handy for very large groups of over ten or fifteen people.
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    Make a list of about five books and bring it to the meeting. Get ideas for books from the internet or library recommendations. Let everyone discuss and vote upon what book to read for the next meeting. After deciding, let everyone get to know each other and discuss their reading tastes.

Tips

  • If nobody comes to the meeting, don't worry. You'll have more people next time

Warnings

  • There may be some mutiny when voting for a cabinet, you may wish to not have one for this very reason.

Things You'll Need

  • A book
  • People
  • Imagination
  • A place to read

http://www.wikihow.com/Start-a-Book-Club


Monday, February 1, 2016

Hot Potato Topic February #1

Love's in the air....yes, that means a lot of ya'll getting ready to get crazy and let your horniness show! Not judging or hating just observing....somebody got to make sure the pot doesn't boil over.
Anyway as you get ready to love the one you're with and knock da' boots, enjoy this fun read that I saw while delayed at the airport.
Can't wait to get back to my kitchen,
The Chef,

Love the One You're With? Or Choose the One You Love?

How going with the flow can get you into the wrong relationship 

Are you looking for love or waiting for love to find you?
If you’re a quiet introvert who prefers sitting in the corner, and if you’re accustomed to feeling like you’re always overlooked, having the high beams of an extrovert’s attention turned on you can be flattering, if not blinding. It’s hard not to be drawn in when the center of attention wants to share the spotlight with you, and it’s hard to resist a forceful personality reaching out and pulling you in.
On one hand, this is fine. Many introverts are not comfortable being the pursuer in relationships. Dan, a 44-year-old computer tech who married an extrovert he met on the job, says, “Given that I was/am also shy with women, dating an introverted woman would have been difficult and long. Actually the dating wouldn’t have been bad, getting around to asking her out would have been long and difficult.”
Ray-Mel, who was first pursued by his wife, says, “I think someone who approaches someone else is by nature extroverted. . . . Recovering from a rejection isn’t as difficult as it is for someone who is more introverted and finds it hard enough to make an approach at all.”

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with recognizing you’re not the pursuer type. It’s the kind of self-knowledge that can put you on the path to a happy ending. Many of the introverts I spoke to said that they did tend to be the pursued rather than the pursuer, but some also realized that it meant they didn’t always make conscious choices in their relationships. “I’m very shy and too afraid of embarrassment to put myself out there,” says 17-year-old Niza. And so even though she’s not interested in super-friendly guys who have lots and lots of friends everywhere, she usually ends up with talkative extroverts. “Which is probably why we didn’t work out,” she says. “I always get bored or aggravated with the person and dump him.”
Because of our tendency to let others take the lead, we are at risk of being sucked into relationships we might not have chosen if we’d given it more thought.

We’ve already talked about why introverts can be appealing to extroverts: We let them have the spotlight, we listen to them, and the rapt attention we are capable of providing (or at least faking) is irresistible to an attention-hungry extrovert. And some extroverts genuinely need us (whether or not they’re aware of it) to help them slow down sometimes. “It’s easy for her to get pulled a thousand ways by people,” says Nancy about her “large-and-in-charge” wife. “To have someone who can be quiet with her is really a healthy thing for her.”
All this is 100 percent A-OK. If you find nourishment in the energy of an extrovert, if you enjoy basking in a reflected spotlight, if you are endlessly entertained by extroverted antics, or any of the other myriad reasons you might be drawn to extroverts, then let that extrovert woo you and enjoy.
All I suggest is that if you are going to be drawn into an extrovert’s whirl, be sure you do it consciously and for the right reasons. Don’t just fall in love with someone loving you, if you know what I mean. Actually, that’s probably good advice for anyone, introvert or extrovert. But because introverts are less likely to stick their necks out to make connections, we can be more easily drawn into an extrovert’s attention without considering whether it’s the kind of attention that feeds our souls.
Among the risks of letting the extrovert choose you is that after the initial thrill of your undivided attention wanes, the extrovert might wait for something more exciting to happen, leading to hurtful disappointment. Or you might learn that you enjoy all that fuss and bother only to a degree and after a while find yourself wondering irritably why this bundle of noise and energy doesn’t just calm down and read a book or something. (Granted, you might grumble about that sometimes even if the relationship is generally successful. Just as your extrovert might sometimes wish you would put out a little more energy around people. No relationship is without frustrations, and that’s fine, if they’re fleeting.) You might tire of sharing your loved one with his or her three hundred closest friends. You might get tired of being dragged to parties, or your extrovert might get tired of having to be the engine of your mutual social life.

You might even find you feel threatened by your outgoing extrovert’s easy charms with strangers. In an online essay, “6 Things Every Extrovert Secretly Has to Deal With,” extroverted writer Macy Santo Domingo complains that “People will often assume you’re flirting,” even when you are just being your ordinary, outgoing extroverted self. This is a problem for her, she continues, when her friendliness is “misinterpreted as something more, especially when the person you are talking to gets offended that you are not, in fact, hitting on them.”
Some extroverts might have a flirtatious manner that they have trouble turning off whether or not they intend to flirt. While this might be a little irritating for the extrovert, it can feel deeply threatening for an introverted partner who perceives flirtation and its attendant attention differently.
Of course, you also have to trust your gut because while it could be your extrovert is just being friendly, it also could be genuine flirtation. If it is flirtatiousness, use your gut again to determine whether it’s all in fun or an actual threat. And regardless of whether it’s a genuine threat or not, if you dislike it and the extrovert is unwilling to ratchet it back for your peace of mind, then you get to decide if you’re OK with this in your relationship.
If any of these relationship breakdowns happen, it’s important to remind yourself that it’s just part of finding your way to love. An extrovert might choose you, but you always have the option to opt out if the fit is wrong. If the extrovert you were dating ultimately found you dull, don’t take his or her word for it without first asking yourself what this person’s criteria for “interesting” are. They might be entirely different from your own, and entirely different from the person you want to be. In other words, you’re not dull just because this person thinks you are.

Actually, the person might be reacting to something that has little to do with you. My friend Carol Lennox, LPC, a therapist in Austin, Texas, points out that problems in the relationship often trace back to childhood stuff. An extrovert who was neglected as a child might be drawn to introverts because that lack of attention feels familiar, she says. “This hooks into the childhood pain and makes them angry at the introvert, who may be simply being themselves.”
In his classic self-help book, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, Harville Hendrix points out that most of us look for mates who are like the people who raised us, in order to do it right this time. “Our old brain . . . is trying to recreate the environment of childhood. And the reason the old brain is trying to resurrect the past is not a matter of habit or blind compulsion but of a compelling need to heal old childhood wounds.”
In that case, by choosing you, the other person may be subconsciously opting in to a relationship that has problems built right into it from the get-go. And you may or may not be doing the same thing, depending on whether you are genuinely attracted to the relationship or if you just allowed yourself to get sucked into it.

Sound like pretty heavy stuff? Well, there’s not a lot in the world that’s heavier than choosing the person with whom we feel safe to be ourselves, which is one good reason to wait until we have a reasonably mature view of our needs and wants before we set our life-love path. Getting to know oneself that well can be a long and difficult process, often learned through a lot of trial and error, which in relationships can also mean an awful lot of hurt.
If you frequently find yourself in relationships with friends or lovers who make you feel small and less-than, or if you find yourself frequently exhausted in the relationship from the effort of maintaining a persona the other person expects, maybe you’re letting others choose you rather than choosing to be with people who make you feel wonderful. It might be time to step back and think a little bit: What do you want in a relationship, and is that what you are finding? Are you settling for not-quite-right relationships because they find you?

Excerpted from Introverts in Love: The Quiet Way to Happily Ever After.
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Monday, January 25, 2016

Hot Potato Topic January #4

Tackling a little tougher issue today my people. I agree all people have a right to life and determining what is done to their bodies we need to take a step back and see where some of our medical advances really come from. I will always love what Dr. Malcolm from Jurassic Park said, "Just because we can doesn't mean we should."
Now this article isn't to rain on the parade of those who party hard, and let their bodies do whatever feels right but abortion as birth control just sounds scary to me. I rather be more selective about whose magic wand I am going to play with. Was he that thick, long and veiny that you just lost control? But before ya'll start a food fight in the kitchen and play the rape, incest and all the other heart breaks we woman have to deal with just take a read at the article below. I want you to make an informed decision so you can be safe and know just what you might be opening yourself up to.
Looking forward to a robust discussion.
As always yours in the kitchen,
The Chef

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AP file image Margaret Sanger

The truth about Planned Parenthood

Here we go again. Planned Parenthood and the "fact-checkers" at the Washington Post are laboring overtime to dismiss concerns about the racial impact of the organization founded by Margaret Sanger roughly a century ago. Their latest target: E.W. Jackson, candidate for Lieutenant Governor of Virginia, for exposing the racial motivations of Sanger's movement.
These critics need to re-check their facts. Elite bigotry was the fuel for the empire Sanger and her successors have built into a global force.
For decades, our culture of abortion on demand, at any time and for any reason, has adversely affected black women and their families. This is not ancient history. It is Virginia history, right now. The most recent abortion statistics for Virginia from 2011 show that while blacks make up 19.8 percent of the Commonwealth, they account for almost 42 percent of its abortions.
Planned Parenthood knows the statistics, yet they blame black women for the circumstances that lead to abortion -- that is, poor use of birth control. Leaving the subtle racism behind that assertion aside, it's deeply troubling that the persistently higher rate of abortions among blacks sparks only self-defense from the abortion industry.
 
Planned Parenthood has never confronted its founder's profoundly troubling history, instead annually presenting their most prestigious award in her name — the "Maggie." She is their modern heroine, but they ignore her unsettling record.
 
Historian Edwin Black presents a careful assessment of Sanger's ruthless career. In his history, "War Against the Weak: Eugenics and America's Campaign to Create a Master Race," he writes, "Sanger surrounded herself with some of the eugenics movement's most outspoken racists and white supremacists." The most prominent was Lothrop Stoddard, a thoroughgoing bigot who wrote a book called "The Rising Tide of Color Against White World Supremacy." Sanger did not merely stand near Stoddard on public platforms, she invited him onto the board of her American Birth Control League.
 
In her book, The Pivot of Civilization, and throughout her career, she called for the elimination of "human weeds," for the segregation of "morons, misfits, and maladjusted" and for the sterilization of "genetically inferior races." She believed in mandatory segregation and forced sterilization of these inferiors.
 
Sanger did not merely dabble with such ideas and ideologues, she sought (and achieved) lifelong partnerships with the world's leading eugenicists. Is it any wonder that she agreed to deliver a speech at a rally of the Ku Klux Klan in Silver Lake, N.J.? In her autobiography, she admits knowing that the Klan terrorized black families with lynchings that began immediately after The Civil War. After her speech, she received and welcomed additional speaking requests from similar groups.
 
The KKK tortured and killed about 3,500 Blacks throughout its reign of terror. Planned Parenthood's abortion industry has killed millions — and the killing continues.
 
Was Planned Parenthood's Founder a racist? The facts speak for themselves. Even after World War II and the stunning revelation of abuses by Nazi Germany's eugenic sterilization program, she championed a high official in that program, Hans Harmsen, to be the president of International Planned Parenthood in postwar Germany.
 
Black concludes that "Sanger never lost ... her fiery determination to eliminate the unfit." And it is poor defense that she included many others besides African-Americans among those to be eliminated by abortion and coercion.
 
Today, Planned Parenthood eliminates more than 330,000 American babies every year. Almost 40 percent of those children are Black. E.W. Jackson is making a few people uncomfortable by pointing out a truth they would rather forget. He deserves the thanks of every Virginian. 
Dr. Day Gardner is Founder and President of The National Black Pro-Life Union.

Thursday, May 9, 2013

Cue Pomp and Circumstance Please

So my life had been a whirlwind within a whirlwind.  I've been writing up a storm but haven't been able to go back and do any editing. Its been driving me crazy, especially since I had hoped to have chapters 8 and 9 out for Finders Keepers. Thanks for bearing with me.

Graduation is just 8 days away and I finally had to pull things back a bit and just enjoy the moments.  And indeed I am having a lot of great moments!!  I look forward to addressing my fellow graduates in a week and for the first time in my life I have to keep it under 5 minutes!!! Lord give me strength.

Many of you know I had released #SatinHighlands early, wasn't supposed to come out until May 15th but everything had fallen into place and I let it go.  I enjoyed revisiting the actual places I had been to while in Europe and I hope to not let to much time pass before I visit again.  I don't think my passport will ever get dusty.

I've finally recovered from not being able to make it to Kansas City for the Romantic Times Convention. Next year!!!  It was good to see the tweets and FB updates on the events.  So much happening, I am glad I have someone helping me keep up and organize my schedule.

Went to a lovely wedding last weekend and I am still glowing from it! I had such a great time I wish we were doing it again this weekend! I'm such a romantic, I am pitiful and there is no hope for me. The smile has become permanent.

Okay let me get back to Mark and Monique because one of my favorite authors has a new book out and I have got to get my hands on it!!
Happy Reading!!!